Reactive Abuse: A Narcissist’s Favorite Cat & Mouse Game

reactive abuse

When someone is experiencing reactive abuse they are responding in a significant way to the toxic behavior they repeatedly experience from another.  The abuse may be physical or psychological in nature.  The over the top reaction often occurs when that abuser instigates some kind of controlling mind game, and constantly provokes their victim until they react.  Read more

Healthy Boundaries: What Are The & How To Keep Them

healthy boundaries

s to have strong boundaries when we are interacting with someone at the grocery store, or when we are dealing with an issue at the bank.  Where challenges arise is when we are trying to maintain our boundaries with our close friends, romantic relationships and families.  Read more

Attached Entities, Trauma & Dissociation: The Entity Attachment Formula

The interaction between an entity attachment and its victim is unlike a traditional haunting. Entity attachments interact with select individuals in a very specific way. These unseen beings are not tied to a specific location but are tied to specific people. They do not scratch or bite. They do not make things go bump in the middle of the night. Read more

Codependency, People Pleasing And The Fawn Response

Fawn Response

By definition, fawning refers to the flattery or affection displayed to gain a favor or advantage. Fawning is the opposite of the fight response. Instead of aggressively attempting to get out of a dangerous situation, fawn types attempt to avoid or minimize confrontation. They do this through what is referred to as ‘people pleasing’, where they bend over backward trying to be nice. It is not done to be considerate to the other individual but as a means of protecting themselves from additional trauma. Read more

The Dysfunctional Dance Of The Empath And Narcissist

The Dysfunctional Dance Of The Empath And Narcissist

The Dysfunctional Dance Of The Empath And Narcissist takes an in-depth look at the unconscious patterns that keep individuals trapped in cycles of abusive relationships. It endeavors to raise people’s awareness to the ingrained programming going on deep inside and help the reader understand how they keep getting into these situations in the first place. Read more

How Energy Cords Affect Us: Cutting The Energetic Cords That Bind Us

energy cords - energetic cords

Have you ever wondered why, after ending a relationship, you cannot seem to get the other person out of your mind? Do the gory details of your relationship circulate unceasingly in your head? You may have tried everything in your power to stop thinking about them but for some unknown reason you are unable to do so. You may be experiencing this because you have emotional energy cords connecting you to your former friend, colleague or lover. Read more